Raining on and off

It was just another Tuesday. Our new bright light lamp woke me up at 7:13, my phone alarm went off two minutes later like every work day. I let the bright light slowly get me started, wake up my brain. At 7:38 I finally dragged myself out of bed and to the kitchen to fix some cappucinos and dog breakfast while husband took the dogs out for their morning pee.

The morning air was damp. Not cold, but with a cool breeze. I have already switched to autumn wear; my new California style boots and favorite leather jacket. I was feeling stylish with my little skirt and boots and jacket. Off to the office. It was the second and final day of a training.

After a day of teaching, I was walking out of the office and towards the bus station when my phone rang. Husband was calling. He was taking the oldest girl to the stables and between the middle one being at dance class and youngest bicycling somehere with her friend, the dogs were alone and screaming and in need of a walk. I concluded that I'd be home in 45 minutes, the dogs will just need to hold until I get there.

I heard two sets of paws running to the door as I fumbled with my keys to unlock it. Meggie was jumping on two feet, Timmy was going around in circles. I shooed the dogs away, telling them to calm down (with Timmy, it actually works, but with Meggie, yeah right, LMAO!), took off my boots and jacket and pantyhose, trying to protect it from getting runs from the dogs' toenails.

And it started raining. I settled down on the sofa with the dogs, waiting for the rain to cease. It didn't. I was thinking of the girls out in the rain, when the thunder struck. Husband came back home, daughter called that she and her friend were stranded at a beach a few kilometers from home, sitting in a little changing booth, waiting for the thunder and rain to stop.

I told them to lock their bikes and hold on. I was coming to pick them up. In the end it was husband who did, while I took the dogs out in a light drizzle, and then started cooking dinner for the girls and the dogs. Husaband came home with a girl whose pants were totally soaked. She was barefoot, holding the pants in one hand and drenched shoes in the other. I ordered her to take a hot shower.

Having finished cooking, I hopped in the car and set off to pick up the oldest girl from the stables. Car radio was blasting an old(ish) Foo Fighters album that took me to times and places from years ago. “Why'd you have to go and let it die” took me to the traffic lights on my way home from work, the moment when I heard the song for the very first time. “What if I say I'm not like the others” had me traveling beyond Lahti towards Lehmonkärki.

At the point of my exit from the motorway to Klaukkala, the album had advanced to “Long road to ruin”. I was driving on, remembering how I had been listening to the same song on my way to work so many years ago. That is, driving that same road to the other direction, towards the motorway.

I picked up a happy girl from the stables. No thunder during their riding class (whew), and it had been a good one. My little girl (haha, she's taller than me 😉 ) had been riding a horse as tall as me again. I tell you, it's scary business for a mom! But she loves riding, and whenever I see her on a horse, I can see her connection with the animal.

Today I worked at home. Took a break at lunch time, long enough to take the dogs out with husband. It was almost sunny after a morning of constant rain. Youngest daughter came home after school with her friend and husband took them to the beach to get their bicycles. Sure enough it started to rain again; the girls rode home a bit later, when the sun was shining for a while.

Right around that time I decided to call it a a day and take the dogs out again. I left in sunshine, with my sunglasses and all. Halfway to our walk it started to drizzle again. The sun was still casting shadows, but rain was falling. I didn't have my rain coat, so I was totally wet by the time we got home, since the rain rapidly became harder.

I'd been home for maybe five minutes when the first lightning and thunder cracked around us, once again. Rain fell down hard, the thunder was pretty much right above us. Hail started hitting our yard, ice balls with a diameter of 1cm or so. The youngest daughter went prancing our in the rain, collecting ice balls from our deck. She even had a a little ice ball fight with husband 😀

And then it was over. It was still (or again) drizzling a bit when we went out for the last walk of the day, a couple hours later. Probably will be, for most of the night. The weather forecast is predicting thunder for days to come. I don't remember another thunder season like this in my life!

 

 

Down by the sea

It's August already, but the summer still goes on. The weather forecast for next week shows slight cooling, but 22-24 degrees C is still uncharacteriscally warm for mid-August. Even more so is this near 30C we have been experiencing for weeks already. I don't complain! Au contraire! I wouldn't mind summer all year long.

Be as it may, summer is slowly but surely trotting towards its end. Next week the rains will be setting in, as usual in August. Even the skies cry when schools start 😉 This weekend has still been wonderfully sunny and warm. Today, I guess, we'll just be taking it easy at home, but yesterday we went for a little outing by the sea in Porkkalanniemi.

When I was young, we – my ex and me – used to go there a lot with our friends. The scenery is beautiful, it's fun to hop along the rocks, there's fire places to cook sausages in. We even used to take the girls there sometimes, once having our cat with us when it was very small (it was only 8 months old at the time of the divorce). My ex knows the little roads and ways to the nice places way better than I do. Probably that is exactly why we haven't ventured out there before yesterday. I've been unsure of where to go there.

Last week one of my friends at work started talking about Porkkala to me, telling me about their outing by the sea the previous evening. I got the spark to go there, try to find the way to the spot I wanted to find. So yesterday we packed some lunch with us and drove down to Porkkalanniemi. Me, husband, the dogs and the two youngest girls. Our teen claimed that she needed to chill at home to prepare her mind for the new school year. So be it then 😉

We drove down the windy road, husband saying that if he had a manual transmission Maserati, that was the road he'd take it to test the corner hugging capabilities. Automatic transmission is not exactly the best thing on a road like that. I take his word for it, since I've only driven that road (or anything similar) myself with a stick shift. I've only had my automatic little car for two years; drove a manual until then.

We found our way to the general area of the trails and parks, the very tip of the peninsula. We parked the car in the spot where I vaguely remembered it should be parked to get where I wanted to get – there are many sites there, some more and some less suitable for dogs – and we started walking down the dirt road. I checked the info map which was not informative at all and we continues until we came to bridge with a sign that the public area ends.

By that time husband had actually retrieved the car already to parking place closer to that area, but we were disappointed when we realized it was not the place where we wanted to be. I tried to google a bit with my cell, and finally came to a conclusion, that we should just pick any trail, but they all start from the vicinity of our original parking spot!

At that point husband recalled the sign he had read out loud, somewhere there near that parking area. “Porkkalanniemi 13km”. I had dismissed this because of the insane 13km, but finally my brain connected the dots and I excalaimed: “That is the trail exactly!” “13 kilometers!” screamed the girls from the backseat. “Nope, 1 point 3 kilometers! 13 km is already way out to the sea. That sign must have a point between the numbers.”

Sure enough it did. Reading it from a distance you can't see it, but up closer, there it is. 1.3km. We started down the trail, letting our dogs loose. Huge mistake! Leave it to the little rascal to find other people down the trail and start yapping and barking and raising hell, the other one following suit. Meggie is a bit poor at listening in those situations, but when Timmy started back to us, Meggie followed him, and we snapped the leashes back on.

We walked that 1.3km down to a cooking area and past it to the seafront. We camped there on the rocks, tossing our backpack, sandals, extra shirts etc. in a corner on the shore, and let the dogs loose again. Huge mistake, again! Timmy went to beg some attention from this party and that, sitting in other peoples' laps and whatnot. Not that anybody seemed to mind too badly; he's a friendly dog. Meggie started off to the unknown, Timmy soon in tow. When husband finally caught up with the two, they were leashed again.

Tied up to a rock, our two rascals lay down to chill, had some water and snacks. Timmy effectively napped there, but Meggie was always the alret guard dog. Our blondie girl went for a swim, sliding the slipperi rock to the sea. Husband soon joined her, while I sat there next to the dogs reading my (e)book and the almost-teen napped in the sun like Timmy.

After we had our lunch, I went to explore the surroundings a bit and found the steep hills on the other side of the tip. I regeretted leaving my camera behind, so I retraced my steps to retrieve it. That's when our blondie-girl decided to come explore with me, and with Meggie being eager to join too, off we went, me blondie and Megs (very much leashed 😉 ). We traveled the rocks bare foot until we came to the edge of a forest and decided it was time to head back.

It was already almost five in the evening, the sun was still hot, but we knew it would be over and hour before we were back home again, and we still needed to prepare dinner once we got home. Blondie went for one last dip and then we packed our stuff and started back to the car.

Right there by the cooking area, the trail sort of vanished. We were too much to the right, I realized, and going a bit to the left I did indeed find a trail. “A” being of essence here. For after some time, we realized it was not the same trail we had walked before on our way to the seaside. Since it seemed to lead us to the right direction, we decided to just keep following that one.

There was a point, where none of us new exactly where we were and whether the trail had already taken us too far, beyond the parking area. I dug out my phone and checked my gps; still sort of in the right area, but soon the path should turn down the hill. It did too, and finally intersected with the original trail we'd traveled. And there was the road and the parking area, right around the bend.

Tired from the day in the nature and the hot sun, we scrambled into the car, both dogs accompanying the girls on the backseat since there was room there, what with the teen staying at home. It was a good day out by the sea 🙂 Saturdays are the best days ❤

 

The feisty and the tramp

[Koiratarinaa voi lukea suomeksi koirablogista Meggien maailma ja vähän Timmynkin]

Of course, both of them have been tramps, and neither is one anymore.

Meggie has been with us for eight months now. She's definately feisty, yet still quite nervous in many situations, but she's very much at home with us already. She's quite shy and timid, too. We started to think that she might benefit from a pal, her own pal. A slightly bigger boy dog, preferably. So we got Timmy. And he really has a valming effect on Meggie 🙂

Timmy is a two year old Ratonero Bodeguero Andaluz – Andalucian rat terrier – who used to live in the streets. He was friendly towards people and mostly they were friendly to him. He was well fed and ok. But like all stray dogs, one day he was caught too, and taken to the pound. He got depressed and didn't eat. He was taken to a foster home and a week ago he came to Finland. On Thursday, July 31st, he came home to us and joined our family.

Timmy is a wonderful dog, who has taken to our family very nicely! They get a long with Meggie – albeit both of them are a bit jealous of the attention the other one gets. He loves to be scratched and to get belly rubs. He trots nicely in the leash, and when free. He comes when he is called. He has a calming affect on Meggie. He goes to interfere when a bigger dog is bullying a smaller one.

We have been walking to Haltiala, letting the dogs run free between and on the fields. The dogs got their own drink there at Haltiala farm – a big container of fresh water – while we had a couple of drinks ourselves. Yesterday and today we went to the Rajasaari dog park island, where the dogs got to run free and swim. Except that our babes don't really like to go to the water too much. We took them to swim a couple times anyway, to cool them down.

After all the excitement of the days, both dogs have been exhausted in the evenings. They just curl up into firefox mode and fall asleep, or stretch out on the bed like they're dead 😀 Last night Timmy climbed straight to bed, after sleeping on the beddings on th floor the previous night. We'll see where he chooses to sleep tonight. Right now he decided on the beddings.

Timmy is still a little bit confused dog, but doing good. He seems to adapt much faster than Meggie did. Still, it will take time for him to really feel safe and fully at home. Little by little, day by day, moment by moment 🙂

 

Just another day

Woke up this morning to a dull state of malaise, as my husband put it. No real headache, no real nausea, just a general state of dull discomfort. Part of me wanted to close my eyes and drift off again, and try waking up several hours later. Part of me wanted to get out of bed, go for a walk with the dog and try to shake off the cobwebs blurring my mind.

And I wanted food.

It was that darned skeeter pee that kicked my ass last night. I mean last thing I remember, is sitting outside on our patio, talking vividly about the storytelling legacy I got from my grandparents. Then I wake up naked in bed (I always sleep naked), and my husband is telling me about stuff that I was doing in the evening before going to bed, but I. do. not. remember. I mean, skeeter pee. Damned skeeter pee!

I told my husband he must've been dreaming all that stuff, surely I'd remember. But I really don't know…

So we got up. I took the dog for a walk, but it didn't have the expected effect on my fuzzy mind, for the temperature was already hitting 25C and the humidity probably 40%. Milky air, no help in clearing my head. Shower helped a bit, as did the freddo cappucino and fritatta. Still, several hours later when husband started talking about going to the store, I did not feel like a human being yet. I gave up and took a Burana.

We left the dog upstairs to the air conditioned part of the house, hauled milk cartons and bottles and other recyclables to the car and I asked husband if he had the house key. “I've got it”, was the reply. I didn't find mine in my purse, so I imagined it was in the foyer while I was leaving through the back door. I was contented with the answer and locked the door behind me.

Right when I turned the corner of the house, husband called out: “Shit! I HAD the key, but now I don't have it!” He'd misplaced it; it had slipped *somewhere* when he thought he pocketed it. And no, I still did not find mine in my purse. And the dog was crying and barking in the house. I needed to get inside to fetch my key.

Normally, that would be a problem unless we could find one of the daughters for a key. But it so happened that there was a window open in the first floor, to one of the daughters' rooms. And it so happened that my husband's Mercedes is parked right underneath of that window. Well, almost, anyway. So I climbed on the roof of the car, but there was still a gap of nearly a meter between the house and the car – and believe me it was too much for me to jump even though I could reach the window.

Husband came to help me. He stood between the car and the house and offered his shoulders as stepping stones for me. That got me close enough and I climbed to the window sill and inched my way through the window crack. Those windows don't open too wide, but fortunately I am still slim enough to fit 😀

I opened the front door for husband and looked for my keys. Not there, not in the hook where I imagined they would be hanging. I took our spare key from the drawer with me and off we went. I found my house key in my purse after all, only in the wrong pocket. Husband found his in one of the recyclables bags. Sheez. We had three keys with us now 😀 But climbing through that window was a first for me and fun!

Three stores and almost two hours later we returned home. The dog had quieted down, but started whimpering again as soon as she heard our car doors. She really is not getting used to staying alone 😦

We carried several bags of groceries home, put the stuff away and I opened my can of gin long drink. Dog's hair, my husband called it. Recovery drink. I finally started to feel ok after having a few sips of that, and a couple slices of salami and mortadella. The dog got a few snack bites too. I tried to fix her snack bone too, bent over to pick up something from the patio and snapped up cursing enough to make a drunken sailor blush.

I had got a splinter right underneath of my fingernail! It was sticking out a bit, so I imagined it would be easy to just pull it out with tweezers. Husband (“the most accident prone person I have ever known is my own honey”) went for the tweezers and came outside to try to pull the splinter out. He sort of succeeded too. He got part of it out, but damned if our patio is not half rotten or something; half of the splinter stayed underneath of my nail.

“This requires some needle work”, I told husband and he went to get a needle. I poked around with it myself, trying to dig the splinter out. With little success. So I cut the nail as short as I could and poked some more. Finally I had had enough. “I'll just get a knife and cut my finger with it to get that stick!” Husband brought me sharp little kitchen knife. I didn't have to even cut my finger too much, and the splinter came out.

“You know, this wasn't the first time I did that. Back when I was a kid I always carried my knife at the summer place, as I roamed around carving stuff. Of course I would also get splinters and then I'd just dig them out with the knife for that was my only option. I may be accident prone but at least I deal with the stuff without panicking and screaming and all that girly shit.”

Splinter issue solved we started to fix dinner. I cleaned out 22 minnows and husband then grilled them. I'm used to dealing with fish even if I'm not really interested in fishing. Back at that same summer place my dad used to catch like tons of minnows with nets and nobody even asked if I wanted to participate in the cleaning of them. Everybody did.

After our excellent dinner of crispy grilled minnows and sweet onions and tomato and mozzarella salad we went for a longish walk with the dog. She was running free in the fields, but obviously a bit tired already. We walked to say hi to some horses at Haltiala farm and then back home. It was a lovely mellow warm evening, and the world seemed just about perfect, all my worries miles away.

 

Saving your hol(e)y socks for a rainy day

There are two types of people. Those who save everything for a rainy day and those who throw away anything they haven't needed in the past 10 minutes or so. And then there are those who don't know which group they belong to and end up saving totally useless stuff for sentimental reasons and thowing away useful things just because they didn't need them in the past 10 minutes. Or 5 years. Or something.

Me and my husband are of those kind. Those who can have a whole lot of junk in our storage room, just because, and then when we need something we know we (or either one of us) once posessed, it can be found nowhere. Of course, both of us have gone through multiple house movings and divorce and all that during the past years, so I guess it's sort of evitable that things end up missing even when they're not deliberately thrown away. Or maybe the “ex” got it. It's kinda easy to pin it on them, you know.

No, I'm really not pro hoarding. Even we have way too much stuff even now. Mostly just useful stuff, though. And no, I'm not pro saving all of your holey socks just because one day your spouse may have a busted ankle and need a spare sock to mutilate for usage under the ankle brace. But it did help to find old pairless socks in the drawers, though, so I didn't need to be screwing up perfectly good and usable ones.

As the story goes, all winter long my husband was wearing a pair of socks per day, and ending up throwing away the other sock (or both) when they wore out and got holes in them. It's not like he wore out a pair of socks in a single day, but his sock storage seems to have reached a point of “old”. “That's what you get for buying 20 pairs of socks all at the same time, they all wear out at the same time too”, retorted my husband, when I was rolling my eyes.

Now, though, when I busted my ankle and need to be wearing a plastic icky ankle support that makes my leg sweat like h*ll, and needed a nice thin absorbing bamboo sock to use between my leg and the brace, do you think that there was one single holey sock left in the drawer? Nope, you guessed it. Not even one.

But, since we are the kind of people who save random stuff for random reasons, I happened to have a bunch of pairless socks that are too short to be used under the brace, but work fine on top of it, for that is actually needed too to keep the brace snugly in place. As irony has it, the one I picked out is damned near holey in the heel 😉 Oh, why does it have to be pairless? Because I cut the toe-part off approximately from the middle of the foot; I mean, it IS summer! I'm so NOT wearing socks, no sir!

And my husband happened to have a drawer full of socks he no longer likes to use and he found me an old pairless army dress sock (shh, don't tell anybody!) that I cut similarily half of the foot part away, and use it underneath of the brace. It's thin and long enough too. This whole system is like a boot on my leg, tight, snug, ok to wear. Except when sitting in the sun. It's hot. And makes an awkward boot stripe in my leg tan.

The sun actually has come out again, and yesterday and today have finally been more or less summery warm days. I've been relaxing out on the patio in my deck chair, just like one should on summer vacation. And I'm NOT wearing my ankle boot there. Which means that when I plant myself in the chair, I'm not getting up for quite some time. I'd need a maid 😉